Family Support Coaching

Neurodiversity is not a problem to be fixed. It is an inherent part of who you are. In a world that may not always accommodate neurodiversity, it is essential to find strategies and accommodations that level the playing field and celebrate the unique strengths that come with it. 

Addressing needs with a top-down approach is akin to applying a temporary fix that overlooks the underlying causes. To truly address the root issues, I advocate for a bottom-up approach to problem-solving. Although it may require more time and effort, the long-term impact and meaningful results make it a worthwhile endeavor. 

Meeting individual needs cannot be confined to a one-size-fits-all approach. The multitude of research-backed and data-driven techniques employed by parents, teachers, and professionals can sometimes create conflicts. If you've experienced confusion or frustration when these methods didn't align with your family's needs, know that you're not alone. 

While teaching children better behavior is often emphasized by parenting experts, it is crucial to consider their neurodevelopmental readiness for such lessons. Building a strong foundation for supporting children involves prioritizing love, safety, connection, and coregulation with caring adults. These elements lay the groundwork for effective guidance and positive growth. 

The intricate nature of human behavior involves various factors such as biology, neuroscience, genetics, trauma history, and environmental influences. Faulty neuroception, where the body and brain misinterpret safety or threat cues, can underlie many labels and disorders. It highlights the complexity of how individuals perceive and respond to their surroundings, sometimes detecting threats in safe situations or perceiving safety in risky ones. 

 I have embraced a lifelong dedication to self-discovery and personal growth. It is important to acknowledge that I am not flawless as an individual or as a parent. I continually strive to learn, evolve, and share my insights from my current stage of understanding.